Movie: The Kids Are All Right
There is a genre of movies that focuses on the emptiness of families in suburbia. American Beauty and The Ice Storm are two such movies.
I find this genre a hard one to grasp. I don’t know why I can’t really connect to their emotionality. So while I can recognize the outstanding acting in The Kids Are All Right, I just couldn’t get into what it wanted to say.
Annette Bening and Julianne Moore play a long-term (married) couple. They both had children by using the same sperm donor, who is now coming back into their lives and the lives of their children. Even before this big event, the cracks in their family were already showing.
Big things happen once the “father” comes into the picture, but the movie doesn’t play these for over-the-top drama. Things are still rooted in the everyday. I know there are people who will appreciate this choice, but it still leaves me cold. I think, I don’t want to know this about the real couples in my life. Why would I want to visit a fictional couple’s played-for-real problems? Perhaps my reactions are an outgrowth of my own childhood experiences in the ‘burbs. Because despite appearances, it is a desperate, desperate world out there.
If I Picked the Oscars 2011 (in order of my vote)
Best Picture:
- True Grit
- Black Swan
- Toy Story 3
- Inception
- Winter’s Bone
- The Social Network
- 127 Hours
- The Fighter
- The King’s Speech
- The Kids Are All Right
Best Actress:

I’m surprised at how much I enjoyed Sky Captain and the World of Tomorrow. Sometimes you lose track of your Netflix queue and something unintended shows up. That’s what happened here.